Sunday, August 05, 2007

Age and Wisdom?

I've decided that the two most difficult conversations are telling someone you like them...
and telling someone that you don't.


but i suppose that's how it goes.

i've had a surprising number of these conversations. It's progress from the days I ran away from people in Taylors I suppose. Abs will know what i mean.

What I've learned? It never gets easier.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Um.. what? You had a crush on me issit? If yes, I hope you don't take my flirtatious and friendly behavior the wrong way. But anyhow you know I love you :P

On the other hand, I believe that it is actually easy to say it but it is difficult to stay calm and not making a fool out of yourself while doing so. Of course I'm not a player to be throwing those words out just as i wish. If you want to tell someone that you like them, its pretty easy and I'm sure you know how to give the right signals. But if you wish to decline the offer, by saying "i'm not ready to get into that stage yet" or "i'm sorry, i'm seeing someone at the moment" would be considered tame enough not to hurt the other person badly.

But you know.. you really should consider stop asking people directly like "Abes, are you sure you don't have a crush on me?". Lucky for you i'm not as creepy as Melvin. You know which Melvin i'm talking about eh?

Hehehe.

Jeannie said...

hahaha..
you WISH i had a crush on you. :P
and yes, i remember that melvin. and that robert. and that weird korean guy.
i figured you would too..
so at least i grew a bit from those experiences. =)